Wednesday, March 06, 2013

How to manage a conflict?

The sadness towards the ending of relationships has been very difficult and the way it augurs into some sort of bitterness needs to be controlled. The negative aggressiveness on the part of opponent needs to be seen and controlled with ease of use. A person can be very attacking with words and that needs to be counted with simple yet effective manner so that all the possibilities of conflict and its related resolution needs to be amended quickly and significantly. The conflict situation, you want it or not come straight towards you, and for this you have to face it and many a times you cannot ignore it. The way conversation come at you can be at times a bit of like a slapping at you and for this it is inevitable to ignore and at the same time, you should think at various angles. 
 
Many a times, the most of the ideas and the related concerns can be at break when you face at such a situation and for this it is always a good idea to be at cool with others and even if some other persons, goes straight at you, and the person who wants to be in a conflicting situation with you always wants to be in such a situation where one cannot simply leaves the situation with ease of manner that is intended for this purpose. It is always a good idea to watch and observe the person from a distance and keep silent within that specified period , while the aggressiveness is still on you should watch his behavior and other related action that has been continually going on at that point of time , for this the true behavior on the part of others does not matter at you , and in these difficult circumstances one should straight go to the other conflicting ideas mind and at that point of time one should feel as if he is the anti virus and needs to scan the rogue software , means the conflicting man residing there. The situation is the conflict resolution situation and in these setting one should straight aimed for how to solve the situation and many a times ,  if you do think that the situation is out of  your hands , then it is better to think about leaving that environment .  
 
So, what should be your escape route from these circumstances and how could you feel secure by leaving that place all together so that nothing could be worse for you at the least.  Here, the better part is that not to utter a single voice at its most, and for this, the most vital aspect of understanding is to control your tongue whatever be the situation is and how offending the conflict man is making at you and creating the situation for you.  The similar occurrences that has been there and the related circumstances that has been there needs to be categorized into different understandings and estimates. For you the most vital aspect here is to see and examine the situation carefully as you may see and observe many conflict resolutions at various times , cannot be held true to its fullest potential at any point of time , it is there for you to see and observe the situation carefully so that nothing should go out of hand . Whatever be the readings, you have gone through with point of time and courses of yours education the prime factor is that, one should see and observe the situation carefully before making any such significant decisions, it is the instant point of action that matters the most for you and for this the significant part of it is to see and observe it carefully and make the most of it with due course of time.  
 
In among the conflicting situations one should, straight forward control the situations with equal ease, if that person should go for controlling the breathing air and then one should think about the Lord of the Universe to control the situation and with this the entire world should be calm and related cool for him and in this manner, the way the conflicting person has been going straight at you, you should not be at least at any sort of point bother about this situation.  Many points out to solve the situation by doing counter argument , but as far as this author thinks , one should not go straight out of hand also one should not cross and argue with that person as this could led to difficult situations at some point of time . It is better to think of yourself and be cool at it in what so ever situation as possible and try to break the barriers within and make the most of situation with some valid decision making and do remember that staying silent speaks volume of words and with this the entire ambit of conflicts and its related decision making has been phenomenal to start with.  Someone would say that one is practicing the safest practices by employing such and such practices , but I would say it is not correct as with this the correct manner in which all the possible actions and its related reactions has been there at you speak volume of yours relationships that has been there and for this , it is not the time to solve all these but possible the manner in which all the conflicts and its concerned relationships can be done away with is the manner with ease you handle the situation at its best possible manners.  
 
One should think about countering this conflicting situations as with times and passing of each seconds the situation could turn overboard and for this it is essential to think about the future course of actions , and for this you should be aware that when a person is with anger and turning towards you in an aggressive manner it is essential for you to stay cool as possible so that nothing sort of aggravating the situation happens at that point of time and with it the most part of life is to make it most of the situation self capable and agreeable towards you but most of the times it is not the point to discuss and amend this . So, in short in these part of situations it is the best possible methods to go for a simple resolution that is to stay calm as far as possible and stay out from that place if nothing somewhat worst thing happens there, this is the most amendable and most conversational situations that can be hosted for you and make it most for you. Here ,  the person who stays cool for the most of the times , regains control of the situation with equal ease and passion  and the manner most of the continual flow of ideas and its related actions should not override it in what so ever manner with due course of time . It is a simple idea to give the required time and situation to pass it on with you and with due course of time it will heal at you in simple and yet effective manner , it is time for you to take the best situation out of you so that nothing should worry you at any point of time .